Maybe you’re already in a long-term relationship or maybe you first got her digits at the bar last night. Either way, today’s discussion about using your voice to turn her on will help you.
Depending on your specific situation, the technical application might differ, but there are a few time-tested tricks you can use to influence her thinking and how she responds to you. If you’re looking to turn a woman on with your voice alone, there are a number of techniques you can employ to make that happen.
Using your voice to turn her on can be a complex process. You don’t want to come off as too brazen or forward and send her running for the hills, but you also want to let her know that you’re interested and comfortable with what might otherwise be considered more taboo subjects, like sex. Video 5 of the Girlfriend Activation System V2, titled “Nick Sparks on Sexuality”, gives some excellent insights and techniques on how to take an interaction with a woman and escalate it sexually. So check that out.
Now, let’s discuss a few of the better ways to turn a woman on using your voice alone.
1. Talk To Her
I know what you’re thinking: duh! But what I mean is you need to speak with her in person. This is absolutely the most effective way to convey the subtlety of your message without being misinterpreted or misunderstood.
The absolute worst way to approach a woman you don’t know very well is over text message. There’s nothing wrong with texting a little bit. In fact, flirting back and forth over text is pretty socially expected these days.
But if you’re still walking the razor’s edge between flirty and frightening, then I’d suggest staying away from any risqué conversation before the two of you have a chance to get to know each other a little better. It’s so easy for written communication to be misinterpreted, partly because the receiving party doesn’t have the benefit of inflection and facial expressions which help to clarify intent.
Using your voice to turn her on over the phone is fine, too, and you probably won’t be misunderstood, but you lose the added benefits of eye contact and body language. These can greatly increase the efficacy of what you say, so try to talk with her in person when you’re first starting out.
2. Make Your Intentions Clear
Open with a compliment, or a flattering remark. Don’t come off creepy – keep the comment lighthearted, casual, and funny if possible. Something off-the-cuff is most effective, but don’t insult her. Make it clear that you’re interested, so you don’t get relegated to the friend zone.
Be sure to make eye contact as you speak with her. This indicates you’re confident enough as a man to be appreciative of her beauty without being uncomfortable about it. And, as most women will tell you, there’s nothing sexier than a man with confidence.
3. Be Genuinely Interested In Her
A seldom talked about turn on for women is interest. These days, most people don’t know how to hold a normal conversation. More often than not, they’re just waiting for the other person to stop talking in order to start speaking, themselves.
So ask your lady something meaningful, and be genuinely interested in her reply. Use your voice to respond with follow-up questions to show you’re paying attention. You’d be surprised what kind of impression something so simple can make.